Self-Confidence is a Choice

What does it mean to be self-confident?

“𝘍𝘢𝘬𝘦 𝘪𝘵 ‘𝘵𝘪𝘭 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘮𝘢𝘬𝘦 𝘪𝘵?”⁣  ------------ 𝐓𝐎𝐓𝐀𝐋 𝐁𝐒!
 
That is NOT how confidence really works.⁣
I used to fake feelings of self-confidence, and it always 𝐛𝐚𝐜𝐤𝐟𝐢𝐫𝐞𝐝 on me.⁣
I either came across as arrogant or super insecure!⁣  It was weird, I was weird. When you lack confidence in yourself, you have a different vibe about you. It isn't inviting.
 
 
Being Self-Confident Means:
  • Knowing you can handle anything that comes your way. ⁣
  • Knowing you’ve got your back.⁣
  • Knowing you don’t actually have to “know” how to do EVERYTHING, but KNOWING that everything is figureoutable (it is a real word, swear!)⁣
  • Being comfortable in your own skin regardless of what other people think or say about you.⁣
True self-confidence is a feeling that comes from inside.  The confidence you have in yourself is generated by the thoughts you think about yourself.  The feeling of self-confidence is created by believing a sentence in your head. 
 
Thoughts that create self-confidence in me include, thoughts like:
  • I know I can figure this out.
  • Everything will be fine.
  • I am good enough, just the way I am.
  • I can do hard things.
  • I may not be for everyone and that's ok. 
 
If you want to increase your self-confidence, I’d love to help.
 
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- Jill

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